Random Thoughts Ni Bob Ong

1. “Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pagtinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga lang, hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon.”

2. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

3. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawakan ng iba. “

4. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

5. “Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

6. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

7. “Kung maghihintay ka nang ng lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”

8. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”

9. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

10. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka. Kaya quits lang.”

11. “Bakit ba ayaw matulog ng mga bata sa tanghali? alam ba nilang pag natuto silang umibig e hindi na sila makakatulog kahit gusto nila?

12. “Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.”

13. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”

14. “nalaman kong hindi final exam ang passing rate ng buhay. hindi ito multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration or fill-in-the-blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. Huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan ang mga isinulat o wala. Allowed ang erasures.”

15. “Wag magmadali sa pag-aasawa. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon sa hinaharap, mag-iiba pa ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong di pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang sa kaboses niya si Debbie Gibson o magaling mag-breakdance. Totoong mas importante ang kalooban ng tao higit anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan sa eskwelahan e nagmumukha ring pandesal. Maniwala ka.”

16. “ayokong nasasanay sa mga bagay na pwede namang wala sa buhay ko “

17. “hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?”

18. “hindi dahil sa hindi mo naiintindihan ang isang bagay ay kasinungalingan na ito. at hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohanan. “

19. “Kumain ka na ng siopao na may palamang pusa o maglakad sa bubog nang nakayapak, pero wag na wag kang susubok mag-drugs. Kung hindi mo kayang umiwas, humingi ka ng tulong sa mga magulang mo dahil alam nila kung saan ang mga murang supplier at hindi ka nila iisahan.”

20. “Mag-aral maigi. Kung titigil ka sa pag-aaral, manghihinayang ka pagtanda mo dahil hindi mo naranasan ang kakaibang ligayang dulot ng mga araw na walang pasok o suspendido ang klase o absent ang teacher. (Haaay, sarap!).”

21. “Mangarap ka at abutin mo. Wag mong sisihin ang sira mong pamilya, palpak mong syota, pilay mong tuta, o mga lumilipad na ipis. Kung may pagkukulang sa’yo mga magulang mo, pwde kang manisi at maging rebelde. Tumigil ka sa pag-aaral, mag-asawa ka, mag-drugs ka, magpakulay ka ng buhok sa kili-kili. Sa banding huli, ikaw din ang biktima. Rebeldeng walang napatunayan at bait sa sarili.”

REALIZATION 101: Saddest Part of Life

Keeping yourself busy and pushing yourself to the limit all day and when you got home, lying in bed all alone, you will discover that after all you've done to forget that person, you're still in that very position trying to escape..

a forwarded text.

...

The sweetest revenge is KINDNESS.. ='(












I love you still.. You take care always..

Someday,

we'll forget the hurt,

the reason we cried,

and who caused us pain.

We will finally realize

that the secret of being free

is not revenge,

but letting things unfold

in their own way and own time.

After all, what matters is not the first,

but the last chapters of our lives

which shows how well we ran the race.

So smile, laugh, forgive,

believe, and love over and over again..

Keep dreaming..

Keep loving.. =)

Basketball

Love is like a basketball played by two persons...

Dapat give and take ang laro. Syempre, one will always win, the other one will always lose.. Ganon din naman sa love dba? Laging merong nagmamahal ng higit sa isa at yung isa laging humahabol.

Minsan may fouls.. Kasi minsan nagkakasakitan na. No relationship is perfect kaya allowed ka hanggang 6 fouls. Kaso pag fouled out ka na, kailangan mo ng humanap ng ibang kalaro. Masyado mo kasing hinaharas ung kalaro mo eh..

Ganon nga siguro talaga.. Pag naghahanap ka naman ng isang kalaro na ayaw makipaglaro sa yo, para kang nagmamahal sa isang tao na di ka mahal..

Pag meron naman jan na isinasali ka sa laro na ayaw mo, para kang hinahabol ng isang tao na di mo naman mahal.. Pero di ba, mas mahirap, pag pareho niyong gustong maglaro kaso di na pwede kasi ung isa sa inyo eh may kalaro na?

Hay naku!... Eh sino naman ang referee?

Ahh... Yung mga kaibigan mo na minsan, pilit na pinaghihiwalay kayo. Swerte mo pag kakampi mo yung referee kasi di ka nya tatawagan ng fouls. Kaso ung kalaro mo naman, HUrtiNg InSiDE na eh di mo pa alam..

Ang hirap intindihin noh?!

Complicated!

Para nga talagang love... parang basketball..

Pero, siguro dapat nating tandaan... Wag na wag lilipat sa ibang court kapag may kalaro ka pa sa court mo.. Mahirap magdouble- play! Isa lang ang katawan mo. Mahirap maglaro sa dalawang court!. . .Dapat, stick to one lang. . .

o di ba, mas maayos ang game.=)






hay.. Ako, I dont know when will I find the one who wont leave me in our court.. ='(

from FS' bulletin.

Last Goodbye

I've said goodbye a surprisingly large number of times in this life of mine. I've said goodbye to family, friends, people, places, favorite things, familiar smells etc so often it is almost overwhelming just to think about it. And yet, here I am, doing just that. I don't mean to resent the word, but sometimes I just find myself doing everything I can to avoid having to succumb to it – in spirit if not in deed. Saying goodbye is painful!

Some say there are different types of goodbyes – some long term and some less long term. But the truth is, in my mangled little head, there isn't much difference between long and short term goodbyes because at the end of the day all goodbyes are permanent in their own way – and this is potentially heartbreaking. You see, regardless of whether you think it's a short-term goodbye or a long term one, when you say goodbye, you wind up never getting back what you let go of – at least not in the same form - and that is profoundly painful. Don't you think?

Life is a collection of hellos and goodbyes. But why does this surprise us? Isn't everything on this beautiful earth fleeting? Here today, gone tomorrow. Nothing stops the seasons from changing. Is there any comfort, any strength to rely on when something is waiting to come to an end every minute of every day?

I suggest there is. There is not a lot that stays with us forever, but I believe there are things that do, if we take the time to realize them. So why base our confidence on things that let us down? If you don't know what I'm talking about, take a look at the following list:
1. You become a richer person with every single person you get to know – whether they leave you some time along the road or not is immaterial when you know there is a part of you that would not exist had it not been for them. Painful but ever so precious are the memories they leave behind.

2. Memories are meant to be kept – not transformed into mental shrine – rooms or, conversely, into courtrooms where you cross examine everyone and yourself in your search for the truth. Memories must be kept as they are, appreciated for their frailty, their authenticity, their imperfection. That's what makes thinking back a beautiful way to pass your time.

3. Nobody is absolutely good or absolutely bad – we are all a little bit of both. And as such we impact each other and the world in which we live, with a little goodness, and a little badness. It follows then, that we have a little to do with how miserable we sometimes feel. It is not always entirely someone else's fault. Sometimes when we say goodbye to a person or a situation we create for ourselves a scapegoat to blame for how awful we feel. This is an unnecessary and unhealthy state of affairs. However it is irremediable, if you put a little faith in the good side of people and yourself.

4. Change can be good – it is not necessarily the enemy. You can change destinations, leave behind your every possession and everyone you ever knew, and find that your life is not entirely devastated, but on the contrary, you will find it has flourished. Change can be a very good thing. A very painful, but good thing. I know this through experience.

5. Goodbyes help you live appreciatively – if you knew things would be the same way forever you'd probably take a lot more for granted. But when something is taken away from you, or threatens to fade away, you remember the important things in life. And you appreciate them.
If this makes any sense to you, I'd say there's hope that you'll get through the pain of saying goodbye. This list is by no means exhaustive. But I'm sure by now you know, it helps sometimes to see the glass as being half full.




got it from raeleen.

Odang

is currently

passing through

her lowest point..

Slowly gliding upwards..

In a matter of time,

she'll be soaring high.. =)

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,

it means I can't do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off,

it's the realization I can't control another.

To let go is not to enable,

but allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness,

which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another,

it's to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for,

but to care about.

To let go is not to fix,

but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,

but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,

but to allow others to affect their destinies.

To let go is not to be protective,

it's to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to deny,

but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,

but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,

but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,

but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To let go is not to regret the past,

but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more..

Regardless of whether we love once, twice, or a dozen of times in our life, we always face a brand-new situation. Love can send us to hell or paradise, but it always takes us somewhere. We simply have to accept it, because it is what nourishes our existence. ...we have to take love where we find it, even if that means hours, days, weeks of disappointment and sadness.

Anything For You. . .

Anything For You
Sung by: Gloria Estefan


Anything for you
Though you're not here
Since you said we're through
It seems like years
Time keeps draggin on and on
And forever's been and gone
Still I can't figure what went wrong

And I'd do anything for you
I'll play your game
You've hurt me through and through
But you can have your way
I can pretend each time I see you
That I don't care and I don't need you
And though you'll never see me cryin'
You know inside I feel like dying

I'd still do anything for you
In spite of it all
I've learned so much from you
You made me strong
Don't you ever think that I don't love you
That for one minute I forgot you
But sometimes things don't work out right
And you just have to say goodbye
I hope you find somone to please you
Somone who'll care and never leave you
But if that someone ever hurts you
You just might need a friend to turn to

And I'd do anything for you
I'll give you up
If that's what I should do
To make you happy
I can pretend each time I see you
That I don't care and I don't need you
And though inside I feel like dying
You know you'll never see me crying

Don't you ever think that I don't love you
That for one minute I forgot you
But sometimes things don't work out right
And you just have to say goodbye

Don't wanna say goodbye..

Don't you ever think that I don't love you
That for one minute I forgot you
But sometimes things don't work out right
And you just have to say goodbye
I hope you find somone to please you
Somone who'll care and never leave you
But if that someone ever hurts you
You just might need a friend to turn to

I will do anything for you



yeah, as in anything, everything! Thanks for the memories.. =)

Crushed. . .

aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....
(ang lungkot ko grabeee)
hope, nobody reads this.

times like this, i appreciate what a bestfriend means..


='(

Warning Signs. . .

I was occasionally hit with pebbles. I disregarded thinking that my love is bigger. Time came, i got slapped with bricks. Still, I paid no attention considering that my love is even greater. Til I realize, I am now wiped out by a boulder... ='(

Random Thoughts 001_31Oct08

what have I done to deserve all this?? =(